Utah Special Needs Planning

Helping Utah Families Protect the Ones They Love

National Conference

I just returned from the national conference for Prader-Willi Syndrome.  I presented on legal planning for children with Prader-Willi Syndrome.  Often we as parents of a child with special needs take amazing care of our children by getting the right therapist and spending hours working with our children.  We go to numerous doctor appointments.  We get our Individual Education Plans (IEPs) just right and work hard at school to make sure our children are thriving.  However, we just don’t take the time to get the legal planning and documents in place to help our children in the event that we pass away before they do. I helped the families at the conference get their special needs trusts in place so their child would be protected.  As a side note, my two daughters volunteered at the conference.  They were exhausted after working with the children for 8 hours each day, but sure came to love them!

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Start Preparing Your Letter of Intent Today

A helpful document for you and your child is a Letter of Intent.  This letter is not a legally binding document but is a crucial planning tool.  This letter tells of your desires and concerns to caregivers after your death.  It lists your child’s personal information, medical and financial profiles.  It includes details about how you care for your child and what you want for your child.  It should list your child’s physicians, therapists, your life goals and dreams for your child, your religious wishes for them, etc. You are the most important person your child with disabilities has in his or her life and you will want to pass as much information on to the person who is going to care for your child should you pass away.   I have a template that can serve as a guide to you as you complete this letter.  Email me and I will send you the template.
In mine, I would say the following just to get the person who takes over for my Kate through the first 10 minutes of the day:  Kate wakes up and asks, “Is it early morning or good morning?”  “Early morning” means go back to bed; it’s too early.  “Good morning” means she can have breakfast now. She will ask for Flakes, Life, Wheat and Oatmeal Squares.  This means you give a little of each of these cereals.  Don’t you dare put the spoon in the bowl of cereal or meltdown #1 will occur.  She only lets you put the spoon in on Holidays.  Get the picture?  I did get to put the spoon in on Halloween! We’ll see if I’m so lucky as to get to do it on Thanksgiving. You have spent years learning what makes your child sing and dance through the day.  Let the person who takes over from you start with what you know by writing it down.  Don’t make them learn it all the hard, very hard, way!
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Plan to Succeed

When my Kate was born with Prader-Willi Syndrome eight years ago, I was consumed with her medical needs and the fact that she would not have the kind of life I expected and hoped she would have.  Soon the routine of doctor visits, therapy, and worry settled in as our new normal.  I quit my job as an attorney and stayed home to care for her full time.  Soon, nagging fears soon arose about who would care for Kate when my husband and I no longer could.  Most parents, including me, put off getting our legal planning done because we are so overwhelmed with the care of our child and if it isn’t at the top of the list, it isn’t likely to get done.  Several years back I took care of our legal planning and have spent the last years learning how to help others do so as well.  Maybe now is your time to get it done!

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